In today's Miss Manners column, advice columnist Judith Martin responds to a bridesmaid who questions if the bridal party ...

I had no input as to how big this shower has become, and being asked -- no, told -- to pay for it strikes me as inappropriate ...

One bridesmaid says she didn't have any input on the shower's size and scope, why should she have to help fund it?

Bridal shower gifts are all about making her feel loved and special, and these 15 nuptial-centered delights will do the trick.