If you decide you don’t want to and they ask again, simply say you can’t help at this ... JBH: I have said to people, “By the way, no posting. It’s best for us if you don’t post ...

No one wants to be guilted into ponying up cash when it's not necessary. “The whole idea of assuming that I should leave a tip on takeout is offensive, and the ‘in your face’ aspect is off ...